The origins of the words and inscriptions attached to gifts
Origin and evolution of the inscription
When giving a gift, the inscription on the package is not just a formality but has deep meaning and history.
In the past, when giving a gift, it was customary to always place the item on a paper stand and attach an index detailing the contents of the gift.
The way the list was written and the way the gifts were given were strictly regulated depending on the type of gift and the relationship with the recipient.
The modern inscription is a simplified version of this ancient custom: instead of an inventory, the contents of the gift were written directly on the front of the package. This was the beginning of inscriptions.
The original purpose of the inscription
The original purpose of the envelope is to clearly communicate to the recipient what the gift is.
However, nowadays, more ambiguous words such as "small gift" and "small token" are widely used.
Although these words show the giver's humility, they are not necessarily appropriate in terms of the original purpose of "communicating the content of the gift."
The correct way to write this is to write "Okashi" if the gift is sweets, and if you are giving money with the intention of "please use this to buy some sweets," you should write "Okashi fee," and it is best to be specific and state the contents.
The correct way to write the amount and quantity is in the center of the bottom line of the envelope.
The current state of modern inscriptions
However, nowadays, many people feel uncomfortable writing specific amounts or quantities as a sign of their feelings as the giver, and instead it has become common to write their own name in the center.
In this way, the format of the "Omokageki" has changed over time, and today the style of writing the family name in the center has become established. Expressions such as "souhin" (small gift) have also become common.
The meaning of the inscription and etiquette
However, it is important for Japanese people to understand traditional writing styles as part of their culture.
This is because the inscription is not just a formality, but a means used to show consideration for the recipient so that they could know the contents without opening the box.
This is not a big problem when it comes to everyday gift-giving, but when dealing with special occasions such as weddings, funerals, etc., there is a certain way of writing it, and using it incorrectly can come across as rude.
summary
The inscription on the envelope is basic gift-giving etiquette and is not merely a formality.
By understanding the original meaning and choosing the appropriate inscription to suit the situation, you can give a heartfelt gift without being rude to the recipient.
